Many marriages today don’t have enough closeness. Some couples just live together but don’t really connect.
Some people feel like strangers over time. Love and closeness disappear, leaving partners sad. Sometimes, they even think about getting divorced or separating.
They’re glad when their husband or wife is gone. they’re upset when they’re awake. They can’t stand sitting near each other to watch a movie.
When one person is in the room, the other goes to the living room. they keep changing places to avoid each other.Nowadays, couples struggle to stay home and fix their problems. They often choose the easiest way to end things instead of working things out.
I’ve learned from talking with many couples that they face problems but don’t get help.
This is risky because things could go wrong. Trying to fix it the wrong way might lead to cheating. Some people might even hurt their spouse to feel better.
Some women stay married for their kids. They also don’t wont to be called divorcees. So, they put up with bad marriages instead of leaving.
Some men have given up and now have girlfriends on the side.They also avoid touching their wives. Many things could cause these bad feelings. You didn’t expect this, and you started your marriage hoping for the best.
You used to tell your single friends how great your husband or wife was. You even told them to get married too. But now, you are not happy with that same person. It’s sad how things can change!
Life is busy, and it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement. You might forget to take care of the important relationships you already have.
Social media focuses on looks and body parts. It says touching them is the only way to feel good. Religion avoids talking about sensual feelings. When it does, it’s quiet and acts like it’s shameful. But that’s not right.
People don’t see closeness and connection as important anymore.Now, it’s just about getting rid of stress and showing how manly someone is.
Let’s pause hear. Can we honestly answer these questions for ourselves?
what does making love mean to you? Some men think it’s doing what they beleive is right to please their wives in bed. This way, they can also feel good and their penis can relax for a while. Some women pretend to be sick to avoid it. Others just lie still so the man is happy and they can sleep. Some people touch themselves to get the pleasure they want.
This is very different from how being close to your partner should feel. It’s about two people connecting deeply, like their souls are joined.
marriage lets you be yourself without feeling embarrassed. You can learn about each other, not just physically, but also emotionally. You get to know their deepest thoughts and share a special bond with them.
You might ask why I’m talking so much about the bedroom. many people think that’s where closeness starts, but that’s not really true. It actually comes from the strong connection you have with your partner. Then, that connection is shown in the bedroom.
Next, let’s talk about building closeness in your marriage. If you feel like you and your partner aren’t as close as you used to be, talk to them about it. They might not even realize there’s a problem. They might just be going through the motions of life with you.
Maybe you don’t feel close to your spouse anymore. Can you rebuilding intimacy in marriage and feel connected again?
I am a woman, and I want to talk to the ladies first. Women, you are strong! You might not realize how much power you have. You can influence a man to do what you want. But sometimes, we act in ways that push men away if we aren’t careful.
We all have some bad habits we don’t know about that we need to stop. We might know about them,but think we can change later. But these habits can cause a lot of problems before we notice.
Let’s not worry about the men right now; we’ll talk about them later. What are the negative things we need to get rid of so we can have a closer marriage?
Hey, ladies! There are many ways you can make your marriage feel close and loving again.
Stop Nagging
Tell him what you need without complaining. Often, we think our guys know what we want before we even ask.Then, even after we ask, we want it right away.
Sometimes,getting what you want takes time. Then, we might start to complain, but that’s not helpful. It can even make men feel tired of the relationship. If a man feels like he can’t please you, intimacy might disappear.
Sometimes, he might get defensive.Then you say he doesn’t care. But really, your attitude changed him.
Stop Comparing Him
Don’t compare your husband to others. Your ex might have spoiled you,but you didn’t marry him. You’re with your husband now.Stop thinking about the past and comparing him to your dad, your friend’s husband, or even your ex. Your husband is different from all those people.
Keep in mind that no one is perfect. Love means accepting someone’s flaws. Know each other’s weak points, but don’t focus on them. Instead, build on your strengths and try to make your spouse’s weaknesses seem less important.
Don’t Be Disrespectful
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show respect by not talking to him rudely. Don’t yell at him, whether others are around or not. Even if his words hurt you, speak in a way that doesn’t show disrespect.
I know marriage can bring unexpected challenges. You might face things you didn’t plan for. But don’t make your husband feel bad by acting like a bully.
Don’t get rid of him by telling everyone about his mistakes.This will make him seem like he can’t be trusted at all.
I’ve had people in counseling who argue when I try to help them. They compare their marriage to movies. They forget that movies are fake and just for fun.
If you do those things, you hurt your marriage. You also stop it from getting better.
your marriage is special, unlike any other. That’s why you need to find what works best for you. then, you can make your marriage even closer and more loving.
Remember when you first started dating? You tried hard to make each other happy.Keep doing that! Don’t stop. Small things can build up and cause you to lose closeness.
Rather of complaining, try being thankful. Even when you need things, remember what he’s done for you before. Be grateful for everything he does to take care of you.
Admire Him
Make him feel important, like a king. Help him dress nicely sometimes, and give him tips on what to wear.
Tell him what you like about him. Praise his good qualities, like how strong he is, how he makes choices, or even his body if he’s athletic. Just be honest and don’t try to trick him with fake compliments.
Sensually Sed#ce Him
Guys usually pay attention to what they see. Get him to notice you. When you’re alone, dress in a way that attracts him. Put on some nice-smelling perfume. Be charming and dance for him. Take him on an exciting adventure and make sure he’s happy in a way that’s right.
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Let’s talk about men now.What can a man do to help bring back closeness in a marriage?
Many people don’t understand the intimate part of marriage. That’s why I first talked to the women. But men can also do things to help build intimacy.
Understanding
He can understand how she feels. Your wife is not like a high school girlfriend who wanted your attention. She might not always want to be intimate. Don’t get angry with her. Try to understand. Even if you do become intimate, be gentle with her.
Women sometimes get emotional and might overreact. This could be as of their bodies. Please don’t get mad at us when we cry about small stuff or say mean things.
Create Quality Time
Try to make time for us so we can be a part of your life. We know you have to help the country, but we shouldn’t be ignored. Don’t spend so much time doing things that keep you away from home.
Show Care
Being a parent is not just for moms. If you’re a dad, try not to be too strict with your kids. if you are, they might start to favor their mom. They could also avoid you.This can hurt your relationship with your partner.
Offer Us compliments And Daily Affirmations
Don’t think we don’t work just because we’re women and at home. Tell us we did a good job when you come home to a clean bed and good food. Offer to help us sometimes when we’re tired.
We need a break! take us out to dinner so we don’t have to cook every single day. You know what makes us happy. Try doing those things sometimes, even if we don’t ask.
It might seem easy, but it’s actually tricky. Basically, there are a few activities you and your partner can do to build closeness in your marriage.
This means looking into each other’s eyes a lot. You can also hold hands and cuddle. You can even talk to each other by asking deep questions. These questions will help you understand your partner better. You can talk about how you feel and what makes you happy.
You probably know that your man wants to be close to you, just like you want to be close to him. He might not understand all the little things that make it special, tho.
As a woman, you can start showing love, and he might do the same.When you show love to your partner, they will frequently enough love you back. Try to go from being just teammates or partners to being very close, like twins who can’t be apart.
If you believe your marriage needs more help than the steps listed, try to find strong reasons to seek professional help.