Belinda told me about some talks she had.She said her boyfriend’s attitude changed.These changes might mean he doesn’t like you anymore. They usually spent time together at a fancy hotel every two weeks. This was because their jobs kept them busy, so they didn’t have much time together.
Jerry, her boyfriend, suggested that. He usually paid the bills, even when she offered. He would say, “I won’t let my lady do that. Why am I here if I can’t take care of you?”
Belinda was excited for him to propose. Then,she realized it had been 14 days since they last spent time together at their special place. She called him and mentioned it, but he said he had been very busy with work.
I didn’t worry too much at first. But then, he stopped calling me. When I called him, he’d say he’d call me back, but he never did.
I waited a few days. I didn’t get any calls or texts from him. So, I called him again. He sounded annoyed and asked why I was bothering him.He said he would call me when he needed to talk or see me. Belinda said her whole world fell apart. After comforting her, I told her what you are about to read.
Do you sit and wait for Belinda to call? Maybe you two have a special bond and a regular habit. But now, things feel different.It seems like you are not as crucial to her as you used to be.
Before we decide what’s happening, let’s make sure there’s no sickness or maybe something someone wanted but didn’t get. Please think about these things and be fair.
What if your partner is having a tough time but can’t tell you? What if they’re struggling to move past your last fight or problem and are waiting to see what happens?
Many things could happen, but if you feel a change between you and him, pay attention. Try to find out why, or look for signs that he might not like you anymore.
Maybe the romantic love messages have stopped. The gifts and cards might have stopped too. You might not spend as much time together anymore. Here are some signs he might not like you. These signs could also show he’s not interested in you through texts.
It must hurt a lot when someone you realy care about stops loving you. I’ve felt that pain before, more than once. But it hasn’t stopped me from loving. I know those people weren’t right for me, and we weren’t meant to be together.
20 Signs He’s Not Into You
If you think your man isn’t interested in you anymore, don’t try to trick him into loving you. Also, don’t cry yourself to sleep while listening to sad songs. Please stop doing those things, because you don’t need them.
Stop crying and pay attention to these clues. Learn the signs he’s losing interest,the signs he was never that interested,and the warning signs below.
Here are 20 clues that he might not like you.
1. he Doesn’t Call Or Text You Anymore
Sometimes, he might not stop suddenly. Instead, he might slowly reach out to you less and less. other times, he might call, but you’ll notice he doesn’t have much to say. He might just say, “I just called to check on you,” and then hang up.
this is a big clue that he might not like you through texts. It also shows he may not be interested anymore.
2. He Hardly Returns Your calls
A man who’s in love likes to hear from his partner.He gets happy when she calls him. If he doesn’t call you back, it might mean he’s losing interest.
3. Watch How He Behaves around You
My ex used to really like me.When I came to visit, we would always have fun. But before we broke up, I saw a change. he acted different and didn’t want to sit with me in the living room anymore.
He would go to the bedroom and say he was busy. He wouldn’t let me in. Or, he would get mad at every small thing I did.
I saw that he stopped smiling when I was near. Sometimes, he would say he was leaving as I arrived, hinting I should go too.If your man does these things, it could mean he’s not interested in you, based on his body language.
4. You No Longer Go Out Alone Like You used To
If your boyfriend doesn’t want to spend time alone with you, it’s a big clue he might not love you anymore. Being alone together helps you connect and learn more about each other. If he starts to avoid this, does it mean he doesn’t need you anymore? This is a quiet sign that he’s losing interest.
5. When You Are No Longer A Priority
when people are in love, their partner becomes very important. They put you first in everything.They give you lots of attention. They include you in their plans. They also care about your health and happiness.
If your man stops doing these things and you have to ask for his attention, it might be time to think about your relationship.
6. When Your Man Begins To Cancel Plans
You made plans to spend time together.Then, he calls and says he has a headache. He says it’s not a good time to hang out. Or, he doesn’t call at all and makes you wait for a long time.
If your boyfriend starts canceling dates and giving weak excuses, it could mean he’s losing interest.
7. He’s Not Interested In What You Do
One of my former boyfriends used to really support me. He always looked out for me and asked how things were going at my job.
He often shared tips about work friendships and how to use my skills at work. He always told me to get enough sleep so I would be ready to work hard the next day. He really focused on my job and how well I was doing.
it’s no surprise I knew he was losing interest. He stopped asking about my job. I should have mentioned he’s an entrepreneur. He likes smart, hardworking women.
If your guy stops caring about what you’re doing,watch out! Something surprising might happen. This is another sign that he’s losing interest in you.
8. He Is Not Interested In Your Opinion
Does he not pay attention to you when you’re with others or waiting in line? Does he seem interested in what you say, or does he think you’re being mean? Does he ignore you, or does he say he’s listening while doing something else? These are signs that he may not like you anymore.
9. he Begins To Hide things From You
when people are in love, they usually share their thoughts and dreams with you. But if he stops doing this,it could mean he’s not interested. Does he hide his phone or put it on silent when you arrive? If so, pay attention to these warning signs.
10. You Notice He’s Beginning To Lie To You
Being honest is key to a good relationship. If honesty is missing, you’ll start to doubt him. If your man lies about where he is or isn’t truthful about things, it’s a big sign he’s not that interested in you.
A man who loves someone won’t want to lie and hurt her. I’ve seen guys team up with friends to trick their girlfriend about where they are, especially when they’re being unfaithful.
You don’t need to worry about these things unless you see them happening. If you do, it could mean your relationship is starting to fail.
11. He Suddenly Becomes Friends With Lots Of Ladies Compared To When You First Met
If a man quickly makes many female friends and shows them off on his phone or social media, be careful. He might not be truly committed to you. A man who really cares about you won’t want to upset you with those kinds of posts, no matter his usual habits.
12. He Begins To Avoid You
A guy who’s in love will want his family and friends to meet you. He’ll also want everyone to know how much he cares about you. If he starts to hide you from others, pay attention.
13.When He Suddenly Wants Your Relationship To Be Secret
I always say that if you have to hide a relationship, it’s not a good one. If a guy wants to keep your relationship a secret, he might be seeing someone else. He might want you for other reasons, or it could mean he’s just not that interested in you.
14. He Doesn’t make Plans To Be With You
You remember when he really wanted to see you. He would make plans for your next time together. But now, he seems distant and doesn’t plan anything. This is a big sign that he’s not interested in you anymore.
15. He Doesn’t Care Anymore
Does he no longer ask about your work day? Does he not ask what you ate for lunch? Is he uninterested in your meetings and the clothes you wore to work? Does he seem to care less about your day in general?
Does he no longer ask about what you want in life? Does he not talk about your goals or dreams? Does he not suggest ways for you to improve yourself? If so, it might be time to think about your relationship.
16.He Has Stopped Putting In Effort Into The Relationship
He stopped giving you gifts.He doesn’t visit you at work or plan birthday parties.you don’t go to the movies anymore. He’s not trying to make your relationship fun. These are signs he might not like you anymore.
17. He Doesn’t seem Jealous Of Your Male Friends Anymore
You might see he’s losing interest. You might talk about guy friends who like you to see how he reacts. But he doesn’t care and acts like you said nothing. You’re probably right. He doesn’t like you anymore.
18. He Does Not Appreciate Things You Do For Him
Remember when a simple phone call from you made him happy? Remember when your small acts of kindness made him excited and thankful? He used to talk about how great you were. Now, it seems like he doesn’t even see what you do to make him happy. It hurts, but this is a big sign that he’s not interested in you anymore.
19. He Refuses Lovemaking
