I really don’t like it when a woman isn’t super excited about something she loves… and also, bad breath! ~Romeo miller
You might wonder if guys have things thay don’t like, just like girls do. Men aren’t too hard to figure out, and you can understand them. You just need to understand what they want by seeing things from their point of view.
I mean, get to know them well. How do you really know someone? Talk to them. watch what they say and do (but don’t spy on them). Also,visit them when they don’t expect it.
When I was dating, I felt too shy to look men in the eye and ask questions. This was especially true on dates. I would just smile a lot. So, I know how you might be feeling right now.
10 Biggest Turn Offs For Guys
we will explore things that guys don’t like. We’ll cover common things that turn men off, and the biggest things guys dislike.
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Let’s talk about what guys really don’t like in a relationship.
1. Feeling Insecure
It can be hard for couples to trust each other after bad experiences or pain.Cheating,especially,is something many people think is wrong. We all come to a point where we certainly know what we are good at and what we can do.
My friend used to date a girl who called him almost every hour to see what he was doing. When she called,she would always ask,”Who is with you?” My friend tried to deal with it,but it ended badly.
Having trust is super vital in any relationship. A woman who feels sure of herself won’t worry about things that don’t matter.
Some women now look through their husband’s phones. they check who he called and his texts. Some even pay people to watch where he goes. This is not good and really bothers many men.
we certainly know feeling insecure is not helpful. Instead, partners should help and lift each other up. Make sure your partner feels loved. Ladies, when someone compliments you, believe them and say thank you.
Insecurity can ruin relationships. This isn’t always because people don’t get along. Sometimes, one person’s insecurity brings negative feelings into the relationship.
2. Lack Of Personal Care
Girls, let’s learn how to take care of ourselves. Shower often. keep your hair simple and clean. Don’t keep hairstyles for so long that lice get in your hair. Your man might start to complain.
buy some pretty underwear to sleep in. Also, get good deodorant that smells nice. you don’t have to wear fancy clothes at home.It’s okay to show some skin.
Make sure to change your sheets and blankets often. Keep your room fresh by opening the windows so sunlight can come in.Also, trim or shave any hairy areas on your body.
Guys care about how things look and don’t like coming home to a messy place. Also, wear clean clothes. they don’t need to be fancy, just what you can afford. I’m not talking about being greedy here.
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It’s good to be modest and not go too far.This makes me think of something that happened to a friend.
paul lost his job as of problems at work. He felt bad and started driving for Uber. Things improved, but he noticed his wife cared too much about money. She spent a lot and dressed too fancy sometimes.
His younger sister was getting married that day. His wife had to help his family get ready for the wedding. He said he would be there to celebrate soon.
He arrived at the reception but couldn’t find his wife. Than he realized she had been there the whole time. He didn’t recognize her because she had a lot of makeup on. Her clothes were also very different from what she usually wears.
My friend waited a long time, and now they are doing grate. Maybe your story is different, but does this sound like you?
Guys like pretty and interesting women, but too much can be a problem. Think about spending hours putting on makeup or spending lots of money on a purse. Also, taking selfies all the time can be annoying. These things can make guys lose interest.
3.Lack Of Respect
Respect is super critically important to every man. If you want to get on a man’s good side, show him respect. Most men are pretty chill and don’t like fighting or problems.
Men are usually proud. If a man sees a woman who likes to argue, problems will likely start. People don’t show respect in obvious ways.
Respect means putting your man first.You think highly of him, so you don’t yell. If things are bad, talk to him and fix the problem.
4. Always being In Your Man’s Face
Guys often need their own space.If you don’t give him that space, he might not like it.
you can’t always be with your man. Most men like to think and figure things out on their own. They prefer to handle some things alone rather of sharing right away. This is because they want to succeed.
Being in love can be fun, but being too clingy is not good. If you give a man too much attention, he might not like it. This is especially true if he hasn’t decided how he feels about you. Calling him a lot or always checking on him is also not an excellent idea.
It’s normal for guys to want to chase, so let him. Don’t do his job for him. Guys usually don’t care about things they don’t work for. They enjoy the hunt. If you’re always around,he might feel trapped. This could make him pull away from you.
Some people say they want to see how their partners are doing, but they end up spying on them. this is not okay. don’t make a man feel trapped. Let him miss you and want to be with you.
5. Taking But Never Giving
most women think the man should pay (I think so too). But if you’re still dating, you can get his attention by showing you can take care of yourself.
Don’t make him think you only want his money. Let him show you what he’s like, but don’t use him to solve all your problems.
For his birthday, you give him some presents. But you want him to have a party for you later. We all like getting gifts. But we shouldn’t always think about getting something back.Instead, think about what you can do for him too.
Don’t always argue or talk about money.
If you only take and never give to your boyfriend, he will likely be turned off.
6. Nagging
Couples can have good talks, but nagging can be annoying. Sometimes it’s not just what you say, but how you say it.
When I first got married, I really wanted my husband to do well fast. But the way I tried to help wasn’t the best.
I started comparing him to the people he worked with. I thought I was helping him do better. But it turned into me trying to run his life. I felt like I always had to jump in and fix things for him.
I would tell him directly that I always get pulled into his problems. I felt he wasn’t handling things well, and I needed to tell him. But I did it the wrong way. I complained about small stuff.
I didn’t realize my words were so mean. I saw my husband pull away from me. He seemed to walk carefully around me, like he was afraid of breaking something.
Girls,let’s learn how to give helpful feedback. Encourage him when you should. If something is wrong, don’t get upset about it.
Complaining and nagging can make someone feel bad and like they aren’t good enough. Instead, we should use words of encouragement and help them feel motivated.
If we must find something wrong, don’t compare your man to another person.Guys really don’t like that.
7. Not Being Organised
Guys like girls who keep things neat. This includes how they look, taking care of themselves, and what they want in life. It also means being organized in the relationship. It’s critically important to have your own opinion and be known for it.
Many people put things off and are not very active.They often don’t finish what they start. Sometimes they don’t even make plans. And if they do, they don’t do what they planned. This can make them seem disorganized.They might be late for events or even family gatherings.
think about your partner coming to see you and finding out you haven’t showered all day. What if your kitchen is full of dirty dishes and the laundry basket is overflowing with dirty clothes? We all have days when we don’t feel like doing much,but it shouldn’t be every day.
What about your goals in life? Are you just going through the motions instead of really living? What is the reason you are here? Why were you born? What do you dream about and hope to achieve?
Once, a man sat near me on a bus. I heard him talking and realized he was mad at his wife. He kept asking her what she wanted. He said all the stores he opened for her had failed. He said she was broke and now calling him.
I felt sorry for him, but I also understood his side. He tried to help his wife by starting different businesses for her, but none of them are still running. That’s really sad.
Don’t be lazy. We live in a tech world,and you can work from home. learn something new every day. If you can, take online classes. Just do something! Guys don’t like it when you do nothing. Also, being messy or not organized can push guys away in a relationship.
8. Being Proud
Most guys don’t like women who are too proud and think they’re better than others. Men can tell by how you look at people, what you say, and how you act. These things send signals to the man you’re with. He can even tell by how you talk about your family and friends. This is a major turn-off for husbands.
9. Ingratitude
Some women are hard to please. No matter how much their boyfriends or husbands do,they always want more. This can make guys not want to be in the relationship anymore.
10. Lifestyle And Habits
Here are some habits that some men can do, but others really don’t like.
As an example, wearing too much makeup, using strong scents, smoking, having tattoos, drinking too much, yelling, and cursing are examples. Also, dressing with too little clothing or having too many friends can be a problem. It’s a big list, so really pay attention to your man.
This is about your guy. Some men accept certain things, but he might not. If you don’t know what he likes or doesn’t like, talk to him about it.
Find out what he doesn’t like before you make him lose interest. Pay attention to how he acts around other people.
What makes him unhappy? What does he like to see happen? Listen to him talk with his friends. You can learn what guys don’t like, what really bothers them, and what can ruin a relationship for them.
Final Words On Turn Offs For guys
after reading this, you might be confused. You may think I want women to change everything about themselves. That’s not what I mean. Remember, what one person dislikes, another might love.
What one guy likes might not work for another. Some things that turn off one man might be attractive to your own man.It all depends on what he likes.